Have you ever been in a relationship where your partner talks about the way you dress, the way you stay up or out late, the way you talk or relate with friends of the opposite sex? How did it make you feel? Did you felt like he’s overprotective? Did you felt like he doesn’t trust you? Or did you felt like he’s too jealous?
Trust me such partners are those who treasure you so much. They are the ones who care about your welfare and think of the future. They trust you but they don’t trust the environment around you and the people around you. You may be doing certain things because you’ve not thought about the consequences it can have on you or your relationship tomorrow but your partner will complain because he or she have thought of the possible aftermath of your action tomorrow.
They complain about the way you talk to friends of the opposite sex late in the night, and you be like it’ll stop when we get married, I’ll stop talking to them late when we get married. But I say stop talking to them late now. Stop doing things you think you will stop doing after you get married cos after marriage might be too late. Stop before they become a habit that you’ll struggle to get rid of. Stop before you put the success of your marriage in the hands of a stranger.
They say love is not jealous but trust me when someone loves you with his soul, heart, and body, he or she will be jealous of every little thing because you’re their everything. Their past, present, and future; you’re the treasure they’re going to protect and keep in a secret vault so they don’t lose you.
So stop seeing mistrust in their complaints and see the fear to lose you, stop seeing jealousy in their complaints and start seeing sincere care in it, but what matters most, make them stop complaining by seeing the wisdom in their complaints and correcting your actions because the day they stop complaining, it’s either you’ve paid heed to their advice, or they don’t care anymore.
Apply this wisdom and save your relationship from sinking.
rjbaidoo 